This weekend we experienced Northern Ontario. Sudbury, Ontario to be exact. Home of the world's biggest smokestack and also of the giant 5 cent coin.
We had to go to the wedding of a old university friend of Remi's... Rick. I left work at 2 in the afternoon on Friday and we (Remi, me, Jeff (another friend of Rick's who was the designated driver) and Jeff's girlfriend Sarita) set off on the 7.5 hour drive. Actually we didn't do the whole 7.5 hours on Friday but after stopping off for dinner and a couple of wee stops we arrived at the Travelodge in North Bay at 10.45 pm. I was completely buggered. I had had a pretty bad week painwise, a flare-up that made me forego my pilates class on the Wednesday also, so the car trip was torture to some extent. At least I could spread my legs out over Remi when it got really bad and I jumped into a hot shower as soon as we got to the hotel. Saturday I was still pretty bad but we got up at 9 for breakfast then went for a stroll across the road to the lake which was pretty nice. The thing that amazes me about Canada is that most of the beautiful lake spots are private property. After the lake it was back to the hotel to beautify ourselves and then we set off to Sudbury which was another 1.5 hours away. On the way we passed Lake Nipissing which is actually very beautiful and somewhere we talked about going back to one day - a chalet there would be just perfect!
Sudbury is a nickel mining town and honestly, it's pretty ugly overall. Most of the trees are dead and the landscape is dominated by rocks and the giant smokestack. Every second front yard seemed to be decorated with a randomly placed delapidated old yellow school bus.
The wedding ceremony was held at the 'Round Chapel' at Sudbury University, which is also pretty ugly. It was interesting to note however that this part of Ontario also catered for the francophone part of the population, with all the signs in English and in French. The people we met throughout the weekend were all bilingual which I believe is pretty rare outside of Quebec.
Rick says 'abo-oot' instead of 'about'. What Canadians are supposed to all speak like, but this is not true. I have narrowed it down to Albertans. With other Canadians it's much more subtle... although, that's somewhat of a generalisation: in Vancouver they sound American, in Alberta they sound umm... Canadian, in Sask well so far I can only judge by one person but I couldn't stand to hear her speak. That may be because she was so loud and obnoxious though and nothing to do with coming from Sask (I'm sure maci will back me up on that one). In Ontario from what I've seen so far - and I've only been to Ottawa and Northern Ontario - well it's hard to say. I guess it's more of the subtler Canadian accent that has that North American sound but that is more subtle than the American. Make sense? :/
In Quebec most of them obviously have a bit of the French influence in their English but sometimes you could honestly hardly tell. Newfies have a bit of an Irish lilt to their Canadian. I hear in Moncton they speak a strange mix of Frenglish.
So anyway, back to the wedding. The ceremony was held in the Round Chapel, it was somewhat unusual. They had a girl bring a keyboard and sing "Sea of Love". She sang a few other songs too but no wonder she's a struggling artist (emphasis on struggling) since she sang off-key most of the time. She had however invited another singer friend of hers. A First Nation, I believe from the Mohawk people. She had a beautiful voice and presence and at the end of the ceremony she sang and drummed a Mohawk lovesong. It was really beautiful and to me it was the most touching part of the ceremony. Otherwise, it was all a bit odd.
The reception was pretty odd too. It was held at Rick's parents' place which is a big house on the edge of a pretty lake. Most of the guests were old(er) people for some reason, possibly long-time friends of the parents. There was no music, no dancing, everything to make me feel out of place in my citified little black dress. Lucky for me it was cold and that was a good excuse to not take my coat off all night ;) So basically the night comprised of a lot of food, a lot of talking and a Japanese tea ceremony to tie in Rick's time spent in Japan and Erika's heritage (she is Japanese born in Brazil). We left their place around midnight and set out to find a hotel. We finally got a room looking on to the famous smokestack, the giant 5 cent coin and of course... a rundown school bus. The next morning it was back to Rick's parents who had invited everyone back over for breakfast. I really really enjoyed the breakfast. Rick's dad is a real character and the whole family is very friendly and welcoming so breakfast was a whole different feel. We ended up staying about 3 hours and having some very good laughs before setting off on our trip back to Montreal. I have to say it was very nice to get out of the city!!